I need some tips on how to approach girls please answer i need some good tips?
Question by Zach Wellner: I need some tips on how to approach girls please answer i need some good tips?
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ok now i need some ways to approach girls like at the movies or something because i think that i have the looks.. but what if i do go up to them like what should i say because i get kinda nervous from past experience.. so girls some tips on what you would like a good looking guy to say to you???
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Answer by *serena*
Hi.
That works for me.
Just don’t try to be super cool, be yourself.
Be a gentleman.
If she turns you down, don’t pine after her, she is obviously not worth it.
Hope this helps!
What do you think? Answer below!
A compliment is always nice. Say you like her hair or shoes. Or try to make her laugh, cause almost all girls enjoy a guy that makes her laugh, is smart, and is cute.
alright dude. You are being dumb. You have confidence, that is true, but everything else you lack. Attraction is not necessarily based on looks, though they do help. There are QUITE a few books on the subject by self proclaimed pick-up artists, I would suggest “The Mystery Method” for how to spark conversations with groups of girls, like you are asking about, but there are others. The thing about books is, they actually work. These people are professionals. Think Hitch. You might be great at picking up girls, but you can ALWAYS, i repeat, ALWAYS get better.
I think before you approach get a glance at the girl and make sure she see’s u looking so she knows whats coming.
Then walk up to her and say hi (with confidence) and say what movies are u watching(blah blah blah) mostly stuff about the movies cu ur there anyways right?
smiling helps alot as well as eye contact it shows your not staring at her features and body parts. and dont get too close into her personal space, she could feel un comfortable
Hope i helped~!
“Hello” would be a start. You would be surprised how much little stuff like that can mean to us. But really its not what you say, it’s how you say it. I can’t stand it when I’m talking to a guy and I feel like he’s not paying attention or listening, so definately just listen to what she has to say. Just talk to her like she’s a cute friend to start with, then go from there.
You do look good, I really couldn’t see you getting nervous around girls.
ya, i need help with approaching guys. haah. and i feel i am good looking too,
but my advice to u is just go up to them and be like ‘hey, do u go ot my school’ or something and be like ‘i thought i recognized u..weird…by the way myname is ____..whats urs?” easy. if a guy came up to me, not matter what i wouldnt be a b*tch, i would be polite even if i thoguht he was the weirdest thingi n the world haha. unless he was like an old creepy guy pervert…then nvm.haha. but really, just go up to them…if their mean, then u dont want them anyways, the ones who r nice and polite like me are the ones u want:) not the slutty b*tches…and if u do like the slutty type..well, u suck and i guess there are some nice sluts too i guess haha..but their all 2 faced good for nothing unconfident b*tches. ….just sayin;)
Sometimes a simple hello, how’s it going works. Or if you see a cute girl behind you in line at starbucks or something you can pay for her drink. Plus girls love compliments, compliment her on her hair, her clothes, her eyes, whatever but try not to be sexual about it, just be sweet girls love that =)
This is kind of corny but go buy a pretty necklace. Carry it with you all the time. When you spot a group of girls at the movies or whatever and you see one that just REALLY gets your attention, go up to them with it in your hand and introduce yourself. SMILE. BREATHE. Say you found the necklace and ask if it belongs to one of them. When they say no, LOOK THE GIRL YOU LIKE IN THE EYES and say it would look good on her and then say, “why don’t you keep it?” She’s most likely going to smile. If she doesn’t, ABANDON SHIP. That’s not the kind of girl you want. If she DOES, smile back and offer to put it on her. Tell her it’s definitely not as beautiful as she is. You’ve basically got her hooked by this point, so write your number on the BACK of her hand along with your name and tell her to text you sometime. It’s all downhill from there.
It sounds complicated, but it’s 99.9% effective.
fist say hi, thats what you do first. second, you might want to introduce your self, then ask her to something.
Well, the most important thing is not what to say to girls, but rather it is how to say to girls..
There are a lot of guides out there that provide magnificent advice on dating and man, they do really work. So if you are serious about this, you might wanna check out some of them.
Here’s my #1 recommended source of tips and guides:
Being a kind of shy girl, if a guy is feeling awkward and uncomfortable, I like it when he lets me know that. My current boyfriend asked me out by coming up to me after school and saying something along the lines of, “Hi, I don’t really know what to say, but I think you’re really cute.” All the while looking down at his feet and blushing like mad. If you’re not shy like that, then definitely go for compliments. Nothing brightens a girl’s day more than having her hairstyle, shoes, top or something complimented. Whatever you choose to do, DON’T use pick-up lines or act cocky. Overall, girls are all different and different girls want you to talk to them differently. The most important thing to remember is that you have to make her feel special.
try to be funny